People still think using AI is cheating.

No. Using AI is the same thing you did when you switched from a typewriter to Microsoft Word.

You did not become a worse writer. You became a faster one.

AI does not think for you. It helps you phrase what you already know. It helps you research what you need to learn. It helps you draft what you have been staring at for two hours.

The best way to use AI is to give it something to make better. Not to hand it your brain and walk away.

Let it help you research. Let it sharpen your words. But keep your reasoning. Keep your judgment. Keep your relationships.

If you are taking marriage advice from ChatGPT, you have gone too far.